My Disabled Wife Won't Put Out. Help!

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I WANT TO GET RID OF AN ANNOYING FRIEND

Dear Willie D:

I made the colossal mistake of befriending a girl that I met on Facebook. She was a friend of a friend so we just started following each other and liking one another's updates. After knowing her for less than a week she asked if I wanted to meet up at a popular bar for happy hour. Even though I thought it was too soon to be hanging out with someone I didn't really know, considering we both were females and in the same circle, I threw caution to the wind and met up with her anyway.

She arrived at the bar before I did and had already ordered appetizers, which was fine by me because I was hungry. As I took my seat at the bar the waiter asked me what I wanted to drink and she suggested, or shall I say ordered the same thing she was drinking for me. Now I'm thinking to myself, "control freak."


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He Went for It on the First Date. Help!

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MY MOM TALKED BAD ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK

Dear Willie D:

I'm a 23-year-old female who lives at home with my mom. She has always supported me and encouraged me by saying the regular things like, "You're so smart, and I'm proud of you." But yesterday at home, I overheard her tell her friend on the phone that I'm a big disappointment.

Shocked and hurt, I stayed in my room and cried all night. She has been trying to be nice to me. She keeps asking me what's wrong, but I just tell her nothing to make her go away. I don't know how to feel about our relationship now. I feel as though my whole life with her has been a lie. I want to tell her how she hurt me, but I also want to move away from her and never speak to her again.

Please tell me what to do to get through this?


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My Husband Wears My Panties. Help!

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MY SISTER IS BLACKMAILING ME

Dear Willie D:

I met a guy who is four years older than me; I'm 15. He listens to me and cares about what I think. He is very caring, and I know he's not just messing with my head because I'm young. After three months of seeing him, we had sex.

Even though we used protection, I was worried the whole time. But other than that, the experience was great and he was so caring and gentle. Because it was a special moment for me I wanted to tell someone about what I was feeling; so I told my younger sister, who is 13. Well, ever since then, she has been blackmailing me by making me let her wear my clothes and do stuff for her.

I am fed up with her, but when I tell her no she threatens to tell our parents. My parents are strict and will punish me and probably try to lock my boyfriend up for having sex with a minor when they find out his real age. Please help me get out of this situation.


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I Got Invited to a Friend's Divorce Party. Help!

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I CONFESSED MY LOVE FOR A FRIEND AND SHE REJECTED ME

Dear Willie D:

I'm feeling a little depressed since confessing my love for a friend who shot me down. This is someone I have known for two years, and I never let her know my true feelings because I was afraid she would do exactly what she did -- turn me down. We used to be able to tell each other everything. I still feel the same way, but I can tell she hesitates to tell me about stuff now.

I have been trying to come up with a way to get our platonic relationship back on track since romance figures to be out of the question. I still secretly desire a romantic relationship with her, but as I said that's out of the question. What can I say or do to regain her trust?


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I Want My Man to Prove He's Divorced. Help!

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DID I TAKE IT TOO FAR?

Dear Willie D:

In December of 2016, my boyfriend and I plan to get married. I'm however having second thoughts, because he has yet to produce a divorce decree from his previous marriage. When I ask him about it, he states he is indeed divorced, but the thought of coming up with the decree brings up some not so good moments.

I'm sure no one likes rehashing those kinds of memories, but I'm only asking for proof of it so that I can have peace of mind once we get married. I don't want to be one of those wives who has to risk losing everything we've worked hard for to someone who may feel like they're entitled to something that's not rightfully theirs.

I've given him until the end of next month to produce the decree, or I am willing to end it with him should he not come up with it. Am I overreacting? Am I taking it too far? Will, I just want peace of mind and to ensure I'm legally protecting what's ours.


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I Want to Get My Lip Pierced. Help!

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I'M A GUY THINKING ABOUT GETTING MY LIP PIERCED

Dear Willie D:

I have wanted to get my lip pierced for a while. I told my sister and she is against it, but a girlfriend of mine and my best friend said he thinks I should do it. I'm confused as the three people I just named are the closest people in my life, and they haven't given me a clear choice.

Being that I'm a guy, do you think people will look at me weird if I went through with it? I'm 19, if that helps.

Pierced Lip:

Being that I'm a guy, doing something like putting a ring anywhere on my body besides my fingers never even crosses my mind. I don't know about people looking at you weird, but putting a ring in your lip is an excellent way to make men who like men think you're about that life. But hey, when I was in my early twenties I briefly had my hair fried, dyed, and laid to the side like Little Richard, so what do I know?


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My New Man Is a Player. Help!

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THE GUY I LIKE IS A PLAYER

Dear Willie D:

For the past month I have been going out with a guy who is a known player. A part of me wants to surrender to him, but other parts of me remain reserved so that my feeling doesn't get hurt. How do I channel my emotions with this man?

Channeling Emotions:

The thing about hooking up with a player is a player will always feel entitled to play the field because you met him under those conditions. Have fun and enjoy his company if you must, but any type of happily-ever-after relationship is likely doomed. I feel for you because once your heart gets invested in a relationship it's hard to slam on the brakes and back up. But it beats running over something, or worse -- getting ran over.


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I Think I Want a Divorce. Help!

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SHOULD I CALL CPS ON MY MOM?

Dear Willie D:

So we're at the mall and I told my mom that I didn't feel like going back to the car to get her sunglasses, and she slaps me hard in the face in front of everybody. This isn't the first time she's hit me. I get beatings all the time for small stuff. I don't think it's fair the way she treats me. Just because I'm her child doesn't give her a right to abuse me.

I don't know if it's because they are both females that she treats my sister differently, but this is not right. The next time she hits me I'm going to call CPS (Child Protective Services) and report her. The only thing is I'm afraid they may take me away from my sister. I'm 15; what should I do?


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My Neighbor Is Creeping Me Out. Help!

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I'M WORRIED ABOUT MY SON

Dear Willie D:

My son is 15 years old and he doesn't have any friends. He spends most of his time in his room on his computer, and listening to music. He only comes out to eat, use the bathroom, and leave the house. When I ask him if there is something bothering him, he always says no. Every time he leaves home for school I search his room for drugs and other clues that might signal trouble, but I can't find anything.

He is a good student, and doesn't cause trouble. However, to be his age and be so anti-social is not normal. Call it mother's intuition, but I believe he's hiding something. What are your thoughts?


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I'm Ready to Lose My Virginity. Help!

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I'M 15 AND READY TO LOSE MY V-CARD

Dear Willie D:

I'm crushing on a guy who lives near my cousin who I met a month ago. He is 17 and I'm 15. He is fun, and attractive. I can tell he likes me because he's always calling and texting me, asking how I'm doing. My cousin says he's a player, but I don't see him like that. I know all about safe sex, and how to avoid getting pregnant.

I have been holding out for the right guy, and I know I'm taking a chance with him, but I'm ready to have sex because I'm always horny. I like him but if he didn't want to see me again it would hurt, but it wouldn't be the end of the world. If I make sure he wears a condom, what's the worst thing that can happen besides him not wanting to see me again?


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