Paul Anka, Ladies' Man and Sinatra Worshipper, Tells It His Way

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My Way: An Autobiography
By Paul Anka with David Dalton
St. Martin's Press, 384 pp., $29.99

Currently celebrating his 55th year in show business with this autobiography and the new CD Duets -- which finds him singing with artists like Celine Dion, Dolly Parton, Willie Nelson, and (through the magic of tape) Michael Jackson and Frank Sinatra -- Paul Anka is in the mood to look back.

While still a teenager, Anka had a string of charting records in the late '50s/early '60s, including "Diana," "Puppy Love," "Put Your Head on My Shoulder," "Lonely Boy," "You Are My Destiny." But what set the teen idol apart from the various Frankies, Bobbys and Fabians was that he wrote much of his own material.

It's a skill that would serve him well when the hits and the pompadour hair gel dried up after the British Invasion and when crooners went out of style.

Only Bobby Darin -- who had a similar skill at songwriting and appreciation for more adult singers -- similarly survived. And it is funny that Anka mentions how many people get him confused with Neil Sedaka still to this day.

And though he continued to have a robust career - especially overseas and in Vegas - he scored some major hits writing for others: "She's a Lady" for Tom Jones, "This Is It" with Michael Jackson, the theme from The Tonight Show and -- of course -- the lyrics to Frank Sinatra's signature song, "My Way."

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Paul Anka in full-on Teen Idol mode.
Anka would also score one bizarre No. 1 hit performing a duet with Odia Coates in 1974, "[You're] Having My Baby," which did him no favors with feminists at the time.

However, My Way seems to be not only the story of Anka's life and career, but a couple of other books as well -- and not always good ones. Those could be titled My God, I Idolize Frank Sinatra and the Rat Pack So Much and Gee, Vegas Sure Was Better When the Mob Ran it in the '60s and '70s.

Anka's early life and, well, his moxie in getting a career off the ground makes for great reading. And his tales of being on those early rock and roll package tours with the likes of Chuck Berry, Buddy Holly, Little Richard, Jerry Lee Lewis, the Drifters, Fats Domino, and the Everly Brothers are alternately funny, enlightening, and frightening. The last of which comes in the form of the harassment the multiracial bill got during Jim Crow times while on tour.

It also turns out that this short-of-stature Lebanese Christian from Canada could score with the ladies -- which he often recounts in a self-deprecating way ("Did I have an affair with Mamie Van Doren? Can you call two and a half minutes an affair? I think I came before I walked in the door.")

We also read how he banged head Mousekeeter Annette Funicello, who really just wanted to get married. Uncle Walt would not have approved.

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I'm also from Newfoundland however I thought My Way was very entertaining. Yes, the book rambles in places & probably could have been edited better by David Dalton but for the most part it's quite a story from a man who was there to see it all.

I praise Paul Anka for waiting until most of the characters have passed away before releasing these stories. That shows a lot of class-- which is what Anka has always had-- a classy man. I predict this will be a Best Seller & it's the best book I've read in a long time.

Peter Quinlan St. John's


Paul I am 71 years old, live in Newfoundland, Canada

I grew up with your and rat pack music. Loved it.

I can't understand why you would write a book to do so much harm to the reputations of yourself and rat pack members. You have destroyed much of the good feelings I had all my lifetime of such GREAT entertainers. Hate to say it but I suggest nobody buy the book if you want your memories to remain.

I would like to hear from people reason my message, how do you feel about Paul's writing. I can be reached by email at

Thank you. Bob


Well I'm 49 & also live in Newfoundland & I have just finished reading My Way & thought it was very entertaining (which is what an Autobiography should be)...actually some of the stories are hilarious !

I praise Mr Anka for writing a no holes barred book & commend him for waiting until many of the characters passed away before he published it-- this could have been published years ago but at least Paul Anka had the class to hold off potentially enbarrassing details until they'd died.

This book will be a Best Seller & it's one of the most entertaining books I've ever read. Highly Recommended.

Peter Quinlan St. John's

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