NBA Commish David Stern Asks Jim Rome, "Have You Stopped Beating Your Wife Yet?"

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"Have you stopped beating your wife yet?" -- NBA Commissioner David Stern in what I hope was a rhetorical question to Jim Rome, 6/13/12

Since the first NBA Draft Lottery in 1985 gift-wrapped Patrick Ewing to the downtrodden New York Knicks, there have been conspiracy theorists galore that have surmised that somehow commissioner David Stern is manipulating the results of the draft lottery each season.

Through the years, a few of the other lotteries have produced similar curious results, as in 1993 when a Shaquille O'Neal-led Orlando Magic won the first pick for the second consecutive year with the longest odds on the board (a pick they flipped for Penny Hardaway and multiple first-round picks) and 2008 when Chicago parlayed an 8 percent chance of winning into the first pick (Derrick Rose, from, of all places, get ready for it...CHICAGO!).

Of course, if the commish is fixing the lottery, most seasons he's doing a shitty job of it. How else do you explain non-major markets like Milwaukee, Toronto, Charlotte (back when they were the Hornets) and San Antonio among others winning the thing so many times?

Still, when the New Orleans Hornets won the 2012 lottery, it sparked another round of fierce accusations of fixing. The Hornets have been owned by the league itself for the last couple years, and recently found a buyer in New Orleans Saints owner Tom Benson. The conspiracy theory after this May's lottery went like this: Benson agreed to buy the Hornets and keep them in the Big Easy on a promise from Stern that he would be handed the number one pick in the draft (and the dynamic Anthony Davis of Kentucky).

If this were an HBO drama, the theory would make for a fascinating story line. As it is, it's a monster reach to think that Stern could coordinate that many moving parts (not to mention several dozen ping-pong balls) into a seamless ruse on the rest of the league.

Still, this didn't stop nationally syndicated talk show host (and friend of my radio program) Jim Rome from directly asking Stern on his show today if the lottery was fixed:

New Orleans won the draft lottery, which of course produced the usual round of speculation that maybe the lottery was fixed, I know you appreciate a good conspiracy theory as much as the next guy; was the fix in for the lottery?

The commissioner, apparently not as fond of conspiracy theories as Rome had thought, fired back curtly:

I have two answers for that -- I'll give you the easy one, NO. And shame on you for asking.

It was at this point that Stern posed the metaphorical question to Rome, "Have you stopped beating your wife?" not because Rome likes to unwind after a hard day with a Bombay Sapphire and a round of speed bag to his wife Janet's head, but seemingly to illustrate the ludicrousness of Rome's question. (It is not clear at this time if Stern's "wife-beating" question was thought to be ridiculous because Rome is not a wife beater or because if Rome got into a fight, perhaps his wife could take him. Unfortunately, that follow-up question was never asked.)

From there, it turned into a barrage of sarcastic barbs from Stern, cold haymakers that were soaked in disdain for a radio host that Stern clearly thought was trying to stir the post for the sake of stirring it. Among them:

"That's not a question that I've been asked before by a respectable journalist."

"It's good copy and you do things sometime for cheap thrills."

"Jim Rome is pouting, I love it."

And then came Stern's finishing maneuver, the "Stephen A Is Better Than You":

"I got to go call someone important like Stephen A Smith right now. He's up next."

OUCH. 1, 2, 3. Ding..ding...ding.

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Ok my man, go ahead and reply if you would like the last word, but you have your pov and I won't say anymore besides below: I don't need SP or anybody else to tell me that Rome is a sellout of the highest order.  So whenever Rome deserves to be called out it should be done and I could care less by whom. 

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fine, but neither Bruschi nor Harrison have gone on a crusade to slam their former mentor or employer. believe me, if either one came out dissing Belichik repeatedly, it WOULD be a story portrayed in much the same manner that I communicated above. so keep defending your "clone" buddy there all you want, but you know I'm right


So Teddy Bruschi and Rodney Harrison working for whatever NFL TV affiliate should remove themselves from talking about a Belichik led Patriots team?  Is that a good analogy?  That's the most ridiculous thing I've read today.

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Corn Slop

Rome got a small fortune from CBS and his TV show is dying on the vine (no pun intended) delivering embarrassing ratings, while his radio show jumped the shark years ago.  He appears intelligent enough to understand that he’s become a caricature of himself, but not intelligent enough to understand how to pull himself out of it.   He’s feeling the pressure and this incident may have been an indication that the armor is cracking.  He will spin this as a showcase of journalistic integrity and show host machismo to his target demo, but the reality is this is a 5’6 man with a $150,000 watch desperately clinging to what he perceives as his “baller lifestyle” while hemorrhaging radio affiliates and getting tossed from ESPN to a satellite channel in the 600s.

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although I agree with the sentiment of this post, because of your association with Rome, you have the decency to withdraw yourself from writing anything to do with him. it "smacks" of sour grapes, b/c he kicked you out of his annual on-air circle jerk, despite the fact that he basically created your career it's called class; integrity. two topics you know very little about.


The "have you stopped beating your wife" question isn't meant to be absurd or shocking by suggesting spousal abuse - it is a famous example of a questions worded in a way that is impossible to answer (because either "yes" or "no" implies you did beat her at one point). It was Stern's way of saying that he thought Jim's wording of the original question was poor and leading. Good article, though, as always.

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